Back-to-school season often highlights the paradox of raising twice-exceptional kids: the same child who can dive deep into complex ideas may struggle with routines, organization, or finishing homework. These challenges aren’t signs of failure—they’re part of how differently developing brains work.

In a recent conversation with Young Scholars Academy, executive function coach Seth Perler shared strategies built on four pillars: you are the perfect parent for your child, relationship comes first, inner work matters, and emotional regulation shapes everything. When families focus here, small shifts can lead to lasting growth—helping kids not just manage school, but build the skills for a thriving life.